Moving with Young Children: Keeping Kids Engaged Every Step of the Way

Moving can be overwhelming but when young kids are involved, the emotional and logistical stakes rise. Between the boxes, the planning, and the unexpected meltdowns, how can parents keep kids calm, engaged, and even excited about the transition?

Here are some tried-and-true tips to help your family move smoothly, without losing your mind (or your favorite stuffed animal).

1. Keep Routines Intact-As Much As Possible

Children thrive on structure. Amidst the chaos of packing, try to stick to familiar mealtimes, naps, and bedtime routines.

Pro Tip: Even if the furniture is packed, reading the same bedtime story on the floor can provide a comforting sense of normalcy.

2. Create a Moving-Day Kid Kit

Pack a special box or backpack just for your child with:

• Favorite snacks
• Coloring books or iPad with headphones
• One or two comforting toys or stuffed animals
• A blanket or small pillow

Label it clearly and don’t load it onto the truck. This kit is your sanity-saver during moving day.

3. Let Them “Help”

Involve kids in age-appropriate packing:

• Let toddlers decorate their moving boxes with stickers
• Give older kids a small “task list” to check off
• Ask them to decide which toys go to storage and which stay close

Kids feel empowered when they’re included-it eases anxiety and gives them a sense of control.

4. Talk About the New Home (A Lot)

Make it exciting! Show pictures of the new house or neighborhood. If possible, visit the new area before the move.

Bonus idea: Read books about moving for kids. Familiar stories help normalize the experience.

5. Prep for a New School Early

If a school change is part of the move:

• Talk through the transition in advance
• Ask the new school for a welcome packet or a Zoom tour
• Connect with other local parents if you can

The more your child knows what to expect, the smoother their adjustment.

6. Use Storage Wisely

If you’re downsizing or need a breather, consider short-term storage for:

• Off-season toys
• Duplicate furniture
• Baby gear your child has outgrown
• Smart storage keeps clutter down and gives you time to settle in at your own pace.

Final Thought

Moving with children doesn’t have to mean chaos. With a little prep, a lot of patience, and the right moving partner (ahem), your next chapter can start on a high note-for everyone in the family.

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We’ll handle the heavy lifting-so you can focus on what matters most: your family.